This makes me sad...

So I saw this on Yahoo and it really makes me sad. The article is called, "Four in 10 say marriage is becoming obsolete."

Some of the things they mentioned in the article are:

"About 29 percent of children under 18 now live with a parent or parents who are unwed or no longer married ... Broken down further, about 15 percent have parents who are divorced or separated and 14 percent who were never married. Within those two groups, a sizable chunk — 6 percent — have parents who are live-in couples who opted to raise kids together without getting married."

"... about 39 percent of Americans said marriage was becoming obsolete."

"About 34 percent of Americans called the growing variety of family living arrangements good for society, while 32 percent said it didn't make a difference and 29 percent said it was troubling."

"About 44 percent of people say they have lived with a partner without being married; for 30-to-49-year-olds, that share rose to 57 percent. In most cases, those couples said they considered cohabitation as a step toward marriage." 

The Family: A Proclamation to the World says:

"The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.

"The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.

 I believe this to be true. I love my husband and I'm so grateful for him and all that he does for me and our soon-to-be family of three. I hope and pray that the family, as God intended it to be, will be able to continue and hold strong.

The article I mentioned makes me sad; my family makes me happy. The happiest times I can remember were when I was spending time with the people I love -- with my husband, who I can be with for forever -- and with my parents and siblings.

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf talked about four key relationships that matter most in this past October 2010 General Conference: our relationship with God, our families, our fellowman and ourselves.

"Our second key relationship is with our families. Since “no other success can compensate for failure” here, we must place high priority on our families. We build deep and loving family relationships by doing simple things together, like family dinner and family home evening and by just having fun together. In family relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e, time. Taking time for each other is the key for harmony at home. We talk with, rather than about, each other. We learn from each other, and we appreciate our differences as well as our commonalities. We establish a divine bond with each other as we approach God together through family prayer, gospel study, and Sunday worship."